Reasons it hasn't worked

I like men who impress me
Lots of women like them
I am sacrificial in what I want
Forthright in what I need
I like only him

He is egotistical
He has power by way of his intelligence or pursuit
Lots of women like him
He likes lots of women
He does not know how to be a man and be with me.

 Poems for 72 Days, Poem 11
Inspired by Warsan Shire - Excuses For Why We Failed at Love

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